Showing posts with label happyness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label happyness. Show all posts

Monday, May 20, 2013

A Dream Come True: working out with Jillian Micheals


Yes I know the picture isn't great!  But that's her standing behind me with the black hat and yellow and black shoes.  She is truly 5 foot nothing, but her bark... has some serious bite.  I don't remember how many times she said she would personally kick our asses... It was AWESOME!!!!   Ok so let me tell you the story!

 I can't remember if it was Monday or Tuesday when my friend Sherry asked me if I had submitted my name to workout with Jillian... I was like "what??? no one said anything about this to me!!!!  ahk, what do I do? what do I do? who do I call? Thank the Lord Sherry is used to my panic ridden anxiety because she sent me the number right away.  I called and they told me I couldn't get in the class unless my name was drawn from the lottery.  I wasn't about to give up, I asked if they could call me if anyone didn't show up, then I asked if I could be in the gym... so they could call my cell.  They had no problem with that.  So plans were made.

I taught on Wednesday morning, then grabbed lunch, picked up Sherry and off we went.  She had gotten into the class, I was literally loitering by the bottom of the stairs waiting for the ok to take the class. There was one other lady waiting to get it with me, then two more joined.  Class was due to start at 3:30 and at 3:27 Jillian with her hat and aviator glasses bounced up the stairs.  I nearly missed her, at 3:35, after photo's were taken they let us in.  I grabbed my weights and walked right up front.  See me in the picture, I did the class from there.   

The way I figured it, I wasn't about to miss the most amazing opportunity of my life by hiding in the back of the class.  I wanted the whole experience.  I wanted to be yelled at!  I wanted to leave everything on the floor... at her feet... yes... yes I worship the woman! 

The class was 45 minutes, of the most intense moves I have pretty much ever done.  You know those moves that you might only see a few of in a 60 minute class... and lasting about a minute... Ha. Well I don't actually remember her ever stopping at any point in the routine.  It was one intense exercise to the next... and she was very clear that she would give a 5 second count down and were were not to stop the previous exercise until she said 5, then we were to start the next one.  Ok so we are talking,  tuck jumps, jumping squats, plank walks, push up-walk ups, side arm raise lunges, single leg squat with bicep curls, mountain climbers, plank jumping jacks... and the list goes on and on... (apparently similar to her videos ... but harder! )  I got yelled at, looked at, tripped on... all by Jillian... I swear to this day, I gave it everything I had.  Nothing was left in the tank.. and also if that lady had asked me to do a 1 finger push up... I probably would have... Because it's Jillian Micheals asking. 

I was so proud of myself! I was so greatful for having been allowed the chance to workout with her. And so blessed that I had an amazing friend to share it with.  


The rest of the day, we re-fueled and then went to her Maximize you life seminar.  Also a mind blowing experience... I can even begin to get into everything that she covered. But yes, she spoke about diet, exercise and mental wellbeing.  Here's the short version... Eat less!!! Move more!!!   And also metabolism is your endocrine system... so the food you eat affect the hormones in your body... Eat crappy=hormones aren't working to optimize health=fat cells growing.... Eat clean/nutritious/and the right amount for you = you have happy hormones=optimize health=burning fat

She gave us the math.  You can look it up too. Look up how to calculate you BMR. You can just find one online.  Mine comes out to being 1436... That is how many calories I need to live. Now you can multiply this number by your normal activity level. 1.1 sedentary.... 1.2 slightly active throughout the day 1.3 you are a trainer...  1.4 construction worker/heavy repeated motions all day long.  (she was a 1.3 so I'm a 1.2)... so my daily caloric intake should be 1723.  If I want to lose weight... I need to eat less and move more!  

Ok and my brain is still trying to wrap itself around the mental/mindful aspect of the seminar.  Diet and exercise I get... But then she asked some pretty important questions... "Why are you doing what you are doing?"  (so for me... why am I killing myself with the triathlons, why do I then turn around and consume alcohol and other treats, which sabotage my hard work?) Why?

 And then she got into the reasons why we fail... Destructive patterns of behaviours... done because why? We are looking of a different result? We follow the same routines leading to some type of unhealthy behaviour. Rince and repeat... We essentially determine our own failure by taking the same path.  So the point is to be conscious... to constantly check in... How do I feel in this moment.. Is it making me happy, ok good, continue, or is it making me feel crappy, ok bad, disconnect!   She really liked using the term "listen to you bull crap meter"... it's probably right. But we get really good at ignoring all emotions, we stuff them way way down so we don't have to deal with the unpleasant ones.  

So the point is!  Make the changes!  Stop making the same subconscious destructive patterns leading obviously to failure!   Live healthy, live actively and live mindfully.


Thursday, April 26, 2012

My Happy List



In an effort to "heal" during my time of ppd (postpartum depression) I am trying to create a "Happy List".  The things that make me happy, well or maybe just less miserable. Of course winning a million dollars or going an a vacation without kids would make me happy, but I also need to be realistic! I am stuck at home or near home, we don't have much/or any disposable income and all other conceivable limitations due to my circumstance apply... yada yada yada...

  So when the deep dark abysmal place hits me I can re-read this post and try something, anything that might help!  So here goes!

My Happy List

1) Well currently I am in pretty good spirits and that can be attributed to:

- Tea
- Blogging
- A Gluten Free cinnamon treat
- (and who am I kidding, two peacefully sleeping kids that I successfully put down for naps, at the same time!!!)

2) I find I am very content when I'm at Indigo in AM with only the baby; this can be a combination of;

- Free refills on coffee and tea (at the Starbucks, because my card is registered)
- Ability to read my book (mostly uninterrupted)
- Some very friendly locals who know me and the baby pretty well by now

3) I enjoy myself when I am surrounded by like minded individuals like:

- Play dates with my kids/friends
- OEYC groups (my PPD group) -click for the link!
- Hot Yoga

4) I feel like I'm shining when I am teaching people about:

- Food (health tips,recipes, ideas for integrating health and clean food into anyone's current diet )
- Wellness
- Fitness

5) And last but not least my list of self-indulgences that do cost money and that are somewhat shallow but I'm learning not to care what anyone thinks;

- a nice long pedicure
- an hour long massage from Ed (at Goodlife Burlington, ask for him, I highly recommend him)
- dark chocolate (pretty much on anything, peanut butter balls, strawberries, bacon...)
- a meal at The Naked Sprout
- putting the kids in daycare so I can actually sleep for a couple of hours during the day AND not do the laundry! 

 I guess I could have added stuff like a hot bath, nature walks and cooking and baking!  Those are free but do require alot of prep and work!  Do you know how much work it is to actually take a hot bath when you have 3 kids who can hear the sound of a tub filling up from a 10 mile radius and all try to jump in at the same time, regardless of the poor mom who is trying to take a relaxing soak!!! Or packing everyone up for a nature walk? Snacks, availability of "potties", extra clothing, diaper bag, baby carrier... the list goes on... sometimes not even worth the effort! And even though I love to cook, I really truly love to do it when 6 extra little hands aren't trying to "help"!